Tuesday, July 28, 2009
The Singular “They” ↦
The idea that he, him and his should go both ways caught on and was widely adopted. But how, you might ask, did people refer to an anybody before then? This will surprise a few purists, but for centuries the universal pronoun was they. Writers as far back as Chaucer used it for singular and plural, masculine and feminine. Nobody seemed to mind that they, them and their were officially plural. As Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary of English Usage explains, writers were comfortable using they with an indefinite pronoun like everybody because it suggested a sexless plural.
Maybe they’re right, but it is going to take some time for me to get over how wrong it seems to me. (You may need to search for “all purpose pronoun” to get past the pay wall.)